On the eve of Women's International Day ♥ I am thinking radical. No religion, philosophy or spiritual idea gives enough credit to women, shows enough appreciation of our indestructible, mysterious and divine nature. To begin with, everyone is trying to understand us. Men try to understand us, women who have bought into the masculine logical thinking try to understand us. That is not possible. Because we are not understandable. The female half of God is mysterious, it is not understandable. Then add Beauty, Grace, Intelligence to Non Understandable and you get a Threat. Woman has been the biggest threat of humanity in all civilization. Because Beauty + Grace + Intelligence very naturally equals Power. And that is not acceptable. So they did not call her Beautiful, Graceful, Mysterious, they called her an evil Eve, a devil, who tries to seduce, to tempt, to take the male power away. Then if she enjoys her physical pleasure she becomes a fallen woman, a prostitute. So she needs to be saved, she needs to leave her sensuality in the past and become decent. She becomes decent, leaves her sensuality in her previous life, and becomes a business woman, clever, confident,capable. But this time she still does not get it right, she becomes a Bitch.
Stop for a moment, and think: what should a woman do in order to be respected and valued and appreciated, and may be a little bit loved?
Is there any such thing? If she is a dancer - she is showing too much flesh, so she is a temptress, not to be trusted. If she is a scientist - she is too emotionally detached and not a 'typical' woman. If she is a builder - she is too masculine, too tough. If she is a boss - she is a Bitch. If she is confident - she has a big ego. If she is dedicated to being a mother - she is a loser, not successful!!!! But if she is successful - she is a bad mother, she is calculating, she has slept around to get where she is. If she is emotional - she is crazy. If she is controlled in her emotions - she is cold...
Tell me, is there anything that a woman can do right? I don't think so. Not in the eyes of others. If you are a woman you will always be judged NEGATIVELY. Because Your Beautiful, Graceful, Intelligent Self is at the same time the white screen of projections of fears, all possible fears of men and of women, all the fears in the world.
And this is the conclusion I have made for myself. I will never do right in the eyes of the world and I have given up on that long time ago. I am liberated. Not easily lent to people's expectations.
I WILL DO RIGHT FOR MYSELF:
I follow my goals guiltlessly. I make my money confidently. I enjoy my pleasures shamelessly. I meet my needs assertively. I open my heart only to those who deserve it. I shut doors and hang up phones to those who do not deserve it. My time and attention are just as precious as my love. I get good things for myself. I deserve my happiness. I do only the things that make me happy. I understand that I can't be good for anyone unless I am good to myself. I understand that love, kindness and respect for others begin with kindness, love and respect for myself.
Ladies of the World - Happy Women's International Day! Do something Good for Yourself today! Make this Day, this Week, this Month, this Year, this Decade, this Life, to be the One ABOUT YOU.
Do not buy into any psychological, philosophical, religious or spiritual manipulation that is trying to oppress YOUR Divine Lifeforce Shakti. All spirituality that comes from men is spirituality for men. They need to learn their lessons. - how not to have big egos, how to stop improving performance and start learning to connect on a heart level, how not to be so judgemental of what they can't explain and understand, etc etc...
These are not intrinsic problems to Women, Narcissus was a male not a female. By default and when on automatic pilot, we are self-giving, self-effacing, self-sacrificing, devoted, sharing, far too much understanding, forgiving... so we don't need to read any of their books or follow their teachings. It is none of our business to be concerned with their problems. As our direction is completely different. We have to stop being so self-effacing, we have to strengthen our ego not dissolve it, so that we can stop giving in to pressures, to manipulations to give more and more and more from ourselves, and no matter how much we give it is never good enough, we need to strengthen our ego in order to draw boundaries and lines of what treatment is acceptable and what isn't from colleagues, bosses, partners, children, parents, friends. Yes we are One with men and with each other, but only once our Female contribution is clearly defined and ranked as the Exquisite Gift it is. Don't dissolve into the One without knowing who you are and where you come from.
Recognise your Divine Lifeforce Shakti burning invincibly at the core of You, manifested in your female body. Your body is divine as your soul. Remember who You are.
The finest embodiment of the cosmic shakti energy is Vishnu's female counterpart Lakshmi - the Mother of the Universe and the Goddess of Abundance, Beauty, Grace, Fortune, Intelligence, Emotional Intelligence, Spiritual and Material Wealth, Love, Devotion. She is Adi Shakti, possessing Sattva guna. It is only because of her presence, or the presence of Sattva guna that Vishnu is able to preserve. Without Maa Mahalakshmi (Lakshmi) Vishnu is dormant.
In a tale specified in the Shrimad Devi Bhagwat Puran, it is mentioned that Lakshmi's power is such that she as soon as she cursed Narayan, his head fell off. Such is the great power of Devi. She is the all encompassing . omnipresent, omnipotent and eternal force of Adi Parashakti, the mother of the universe. It is said in the Shrimad Devi Bhagwat Puran that Maa Adi Shakti in fact gave birth to Shiva, Vshnu and Brahma. Her glory is unattainable. Without her, Vishnu will lose his power to preserve. She is the source of his power. She's also Goddess Bhuvaneshwari who is the Lady of the universe. She commands Shiva, Vishnu and Brahma.
Know Your history, read the history of the world, and do not listen to anyone who tries to suppress your Female Power, or give a negative spin to your virtues, or those who try to improve you. There is nothing to improve, You are Perfect as You are.
I take a bow of devotion, gratitude and love to the Divine Female Shakti, and praise her with the sacred chant Adi Shakti, Lakshmi, Namo Namo, Sarab Shakti Lakshmi Namo Namo, Prithum Bhagvati Namo Namo, Kundalini Mata Shakti Namo Namo.
Worship the Divine Female Lifeforce and you will be bestowed with Fortune. It is such a simple message. All the search for understanding the Feminine is in vain, She is far Superior to be a subject of analysing. God is not to be analysed, but to be adored, loved and worshipped. Male is only half of God. The other half is Female. If you don't believe that every woman is a Goddess then you have a lot to learn. To all men's questions about women, trying to understand women - there is only one answer - Worship your Goddess and you will be bestowed with fortune. Adore the Female Cosmic Energy because it resides in the womb of your mother.
Happy Women's International Day ♥ ♥ ♥
Louise, CEO Bilka
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